Men We've Grandfathered In
I was honestly so surprised to see that 76 people viewed my last post. I was even more surprised that people commented on it (via Facebook) telling me that they, too, have men grandfathered in. At the risk of sounding like Carrie Bradshaw, lemme ask the world this: why are we (women) doing that? Why are we (women) giving these men shitty men access to our lives? Don’t we deserve better?
My ex obviously had something to say about my post yesterday and I kind of expected him to. He was as polite, but angry. I know block him block him block him, but I can’t bring myself to do it. He’s hurting and lonely and I feel bad that someone I used to care about is not well mentally. I’m angry at myself for this weakness. I refuse to be reduced to just a nurturer and healer. My pussy isn’t a band-aid for these fucked up men.
And yet I made a tentative dick appointment with a sad man I fucked last year, but he was the best dick I got in 2023. As an Aquarius, there’s a 50% chance I’ll blow him off. As an independent, modern woman, do I really wanna share my body with someone who’s clearly using me for sex because he’s sad? Am I using him for sex? I don’t even know what his name is. He’s in my phone as “Maybe Phil.”
Does it even fucking matter?
I’m just tired of men expecting women to heal them and women allowing it to happen. It’s all we can do to take care of ourselves.